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If I had known and understood earlier perhaps we could have made it. So remember if you are in a marriage with an aspie and you are frustrated beyond hope stop criticizing it will go no where. Get help from a professional who deals with Aspergers and nothing less as many het do not know how to treat. If you are dating seriously think twice before getting married. You will never achieve complete relationship the way you hope for as sweet as they seem at first. My aspie is divorcing me and in many ways that makes me sad as I would have stayed if he sought help.

Truly being without him feels no different than when we where married. Chag I miss the good I remember but I would rather be alone with the kids than married in our home with the illusion of a marriage. Sad to report the kids state they wouldn't want him back in the house tet that they are more comfortable living without him. I recently knew my husband is Aspergers from our marriage counselor. Right, now I am struggling what is Good looking want hj have 420 good timing to let my husband know about it.

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If you can manage the juggling act, it can work, but no-one is going to tell you it's easy. You have to weigh up the pros and cons, but there will still be times when you are caught out by your emotions.

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I want out but I dont' know how. Please share how you divorced these men - mine will be angry and take everything I have. Any help on what to say or how to deal with someone that has no concern for his wife's feelings?

He always believes he's in the right.

Thank you all for sharing your experience. I cried my eyes out, but now I need to think straight before the most important decision of my life our wedding is planned in 1. Did you have such experiences? And it really scares me, especially the vision of him as a father. So to sum up, did your partners change after marriage? He's so good to me now and I need to eat some pussy and fuck about me, but many of you says it's different after being married.

Thank you for all your comments. Not sure which route you followed but just a little hope, I've been married to my aspie husband for seven years now and yes we've had some dreadful times but at the same timei do believe there are different degrees of aspergers. I find if I ask him directly for hugs or tell him Want to get married by next sex chat local upset he is able to Mwrried well.

And I know he genuinely cares. It gets worse after you are married. You are already feeling embarrassed by his behaviour, you are experiencing psychosomatic symptoms of stress - you can postpone a wedding if you need more time to be sure.

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And I love him. How will I leave the good and sweet person while he's still being good and sweet to me. It would might be easier if I saw another side of him and feel how it is.

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Do not hesitate to go to counseling as a couple as soon as difficulties arise. Also, my husband and I have two young children both a surprise and he is a wonderful, affectionate, and devoted father, just not always perfect. Also, the early months with a newborn locl a very difficult transition for anyone, but especially someone with AS, just be prepared and have a support system other than him but I bet he will be the best at making sure you have food and supplies and that the baby is burped and changed on schedule!

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I believe he will start missing me and wondering why I haven't tried to call him or text or email etc. I even went all out and deactivated the Facebook! But what I have done in my actions is silently put value on my worth. Do i really need him to define that by crawling back to me? I know he will miss me. I know no matter if it takes a week or a month or half a year he will feel the burn that I feel Wanf and regret his decision to not fight for me or make the changes necessary to maintain a partnership.

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